What's next for Metoo#

Discussion in 'Opinion' started by Jeanquev, Jan 24, 2018.

  1. BearsWillWin Drunk (Probably) Patreon Champion Manager Bears Blackhawks Cubs

    Anyone want to get back on topic?
     
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  2. Al in Cal Guest

    What a bully you try to be. Posting your phone number on a public board and challenge another person to come to your house and settle things. I never threatened you either on real life physical violence. That is a big fat lie. I
     
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  3. babyfan Legend Patreon Platinum Bears Babyfan's P.C. Yoga

    It would be interesting to know the actual numbers of #METOO survivors. It would also be interesting to know what the ratio is for women-provoked attacks vs women being attacked by men.
     
  4. Al in Cal Guest

    What a bully you try to be. Posting your phone number on a public board and challenge another person to come to your house and settle things. I never threatened you either on real life physical violence. That is a big fat lie. I also love your little ACT of playing the victim here with baby. YOu probably PMed each other on taking this hilarious tact.
     
  5. babyfan Legend Patreon Platinum Bears Babyfan's P.C. Yoga

    We talked about fear keeping victims quiet for years. For me personally I never talked about any of the attacks on me until I was an adult and I still never spoke to my parents about it. Fear can be a great motivator ...
     
  6. BearsWillWin Drunk (Probably) Patreon Champion Manager Bears Blackhawks Cubs

    The number of people in this world that have been abused or somehow sexually assaulted would probably realistically be so high it’s ridiculous.

    I don’t think everyone that claims to be a victim is a victim and I think a lot can be prevented by being smarter but humans in general...do some really fucked up things to each other.
     
  7. Al in Cal Guest

    Yes you and baby are. Big mean old AL personally attacked us. I am not the one here who attacked someone for their religious beliefs am I?
     
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  8. babyfan Legend Patreon Platinum Bears Babyfan's P.C. Yoga

    Your first statement echoes what I think about the numbers too. When you look at this globally it's shocking. I have a friend who lives in South Africa. Years ago he told me about this thing that men were doing ... under the mistaken belief that having sex with a very young child (think infant) would keep them safe from Aids. He told me that he would never let his daughter go outside in public anywhere unless she was guarded. Talk about gender mutilation too ... those (in my opinion) are also a form of sex abuse.

    I agree with you on your second statement too. The world is full of liars who are defending their own agendas and they make resolving or even understanding this issue even more difficult.
     
  9. Al in Cal Guest

    Bullshit. I never said that non religious people cannot be moral. I said that Hollywood in general is composed of immoral people. You should know because you are immoral yourself. As for my views, I'd say that myself and people like me are in the clear majority of people in the world who share a belief in a God and a moral code. This isn't a ridiculous right wing bias. It is a moral belief system.
     
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  10. Al in Cal Guest

    Baby liked that post. Wonderful. Two people who put down religious people all of the time and claim that THEY are the victims of mean old AL.
     
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  11. babyfan Legend Patreon Platinum Bears Babyfan's P.C. Yoga

    My biggest issue is when this type of trauma is visited on young adolescents or children. The ones who don't have the power. I don't know if making an example of some of the abusers will be enough to deter the next person from touching a child or not but it's all we have right now. 150 counts of sexual interference and assault should be answered by 150 years in prison without parole.
     
  12. BearsWillWin Drunk (Probably) Patreon Champion Manager Bears Blackhawks Cubs

    Yeah There are still places in this world where genital mutilation is a real thing.

    And where women can’t choose who they have sex with.

    Child sex rings and sex trafficking is rampant globally at the moment.

    We live in general civility and it’s easy to forget how scary things are out there.

    I hope these recent happenings lead to change in Hollywood and the entertainment industry. I’m generally a sceptic so I’m not so sure...but you can hope.
     
  13. BearsWillWin Drunk (Probably) Patreon Champion Manager Bears Blackhawks Cubs

    The psychological damage done to young children in these situations is frighteningly sad. My wife has done work with victims of sexual and physical abuse and she’s come home many times in tears and unable to really talk about it for hours because when trauma like that is done to a young mind it can really derail their entire life and alter them mentally forever.
     
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  14. babyfan Legend Patreon Platinum Bears Babyfan's P.C. Yoga

    I think it's important for sex victims to speak out but I also think it's important for people to remind themselves that we live in a more protected society than do a lot of humanity and by that reason we have things 'easier' (subject to definition). We have support groups and people who understand, who sympathize and support us when we need it.
     
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  15. Al in Cal Guest


    You are simply a hypocrite in how you decide to moderate this board. BWW attacks regularly on a very vile and personal way yet you say......"I respect the way he thinks and the way he communicate here". Then you add......"why does that have anything to do with you"?

    Are you serious? He attacks my religion. He calls me a coward. You called religious people hypocrites yourself. And you wonder why I get pissed? I am sorry that your life experiences have soured you on religion. I really am. But for you to question me being a CHristian, is nonsensical. As an arbiter sort of what is said on this or any board you are pretty lacking because you are totally one sided. I laugh at your assessment of what goes on here and what a "mature discussion" is all about. You are no saint when it comes to attacking someone that you disagree with and then cry foul when people argue with you.
     
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  16. babyfan Legend Patreon Platinum Bears Babyfan's P.C. Yoga

    I totally agree. As a survivor of child rape I can totally appreciate how difficult it is for anyone to put themselves down to a child's level and to try to establish trust in order to help them. There just isn't enough support. How much of this adds to the existing mental health crisis too? How do you help so many when so many others refuse to see the reality of the crisis? There is no glib answer or solution. This is going to take years of deprogramming to make the training or education leading to making healthier choices more prevalent to those who need it.
     
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  17. Al in Cal Guest


    Fear of what? IF your parents were aware of the man who raped you, they should have done something about it. Rape and sexual abuse has to be condemned and justice done to those who do it. I watched that father in the court in Michigan go after that Olympic "doctor" and imagined what he and his kids went through in that hearing. Thank GOD that the judge in that case didn't have him arrested.
     
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  18. Jeanquev Legend Steelers

    Al Turn the other cheek brother.

    Now that being said lets keep the religious banter elsewhere. This particular thread is not about Religion im sure there are other post on this board dealing with it and if you all want to go back and forth there all day go for it. Now I have no power to enforce my request but I have no problem going to those who do and asking something to be done. Thank you in advance for putting your best foot forward from this point and follow the advice of this video:


     
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  19. Jeanquev Legend Steelers

    It not just young children that suffer from psychological damage.
     
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  20. babyfan Legend Patreon Platinum Bears Babyfan's P.C. Yoga

    I don't believe that is what he said Jean but I do believe that young children suffer more deeply and more traumatically from sexual abuse than an adult will . Any act perpetrated by an adult onto a child is a massive and patent misuse of trust.
     
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